Despite the fact that in a relationship, girls are increasingly taking the initiative into their own hands, not everyone will decide to invite a guy out on a date. Using your phone for the invitation is not a bad idea; at least this way you will be much less embarrassed.
Instructions
Step 1
Before you invite a nice acquaintance on a date, think carefully about whether to take such an initiative. If you know this guy for a long time and you have friendly relations, he will most likely agree, if only because he does not want to put you in an awkward situation. But that doesn't mean your relationship has a future. A less familiar youth may take this invitation as an offer to have fun. And if he begins to behave obscenely, and you try to put him in his place, the consequences can be the most unpleasant.
Step 2
Prepare for a telephone conversation. Think about what you will tell the guy, rehearse your speech. Otherwise, it may turn out that you cannot connect two words. Try to keep your voice light and relaxed.
Step 3
Think in advance where you are going to call the guy. If possible, show your imagination. Invite him to a concert of your favorite band, to the cinema, to a cafe, to a walk to the park, to an ice rink, bowling, etc. If you wish, you can invite the guy in such a way that it will only look friendly. But then it will only depend on him whether the relationship will turn into something more.
Step 4
It is best to call in the evening, when the person is more relaxed and inclined to have a pleasant pastime, but not too late. If you are very worried, take a few deep breaths and exhalations. Smile - the interlocutor, of course, does not see you, but he will feel your smile.
Step 5
When talking, do not beat around the bush and do not expect the guy to guess the purpose of the call and take the initiative into his own hands. Avoid long pauses and do not drag out the conversation. Ask how he is doing, what he does, and then invite.
Step 6
When rejected, do not humiliate yourself and do not try to persuade the guy. Behave with dignity: talk a little more and say goodbye. Do not think that his refusal is due to a bad attitude towards you, perhaps you called at the wrong time or the invitation was too unexpected. If so, the guy will call you back later. In any case, in the future you will have no reason to reproach yourself for inaction - you have done everything in your power.
