We often shout at our children. And this is not always justified. Sometimes this is due to the fact that we have problems at work or at home, and then there are children's pranks. But the scream only drops the authority of the parents and over time it simply ceases to work. How to come to an agreement with your child without screaming and nerves? There are 6 magic words that will help you get closer to your baby, help you better understand each other.
Instructions
Step 1
"Yes if" instead of "No".
A simple "No" without explanation is another reason for another childish tantrum. Replace it with “Maybe” or “Yes, if”. Try to negotiate with your child that if he puts away his toys, then you go for a walk as he wants. In this case, it is important to keep your promises, otherwise this method will quickly lose all meaning.
Step 2
"Sorry"
We are all wrong. But we only apologize to adults, and children also need to feel their importance to you. Moreover, where else can he learn politeness if not from you? How can he understand that no one is perfect and that admitting his mistakes is normal.
Step 3
"Stop"
Agree with the child that this word stops all actions and under any circumstances. Just do not abuse power, otherwise the power of the word is lost. Use the Stop command only if the kid's pranks really go beyond all boundaries.
Step 4
"We study"
This magic phrase will help you in case the child makes a mistake in something, and if strangers want to make any remark to your address with the child. After all, they, too, once learned and made mistakes.
Step 5
"You can"
Use this phrase whenever your child doubts himself. Teach him that failure is only a sign. A sign that everything will work out with more effort. Develop in him self-confidence and perseverance in achieving the desired result.
Step 6
"Always"
The child should always know that he is loved by you. Especially when you are irritable and nervous. Take a few minutes a day for hugs and declarations of love for your own child. Tell your baby that you will love him, no matter what, that your love is forever.
