The classics say that love ennobles a person. Love gives inspiration and promotes creativity, it lifts a person to the heights of the spirit. It sounds beautiful, but love for someone you know well, spiritually close, but infinitely distant, leaves deep wounds that no creativity can heal. Sometimes it happens when you love a friend.
First, stop portraying the situation in very dark colors. Even girls who are in love with homosexuals have a chance. The main thing is to think over a strategy, choose tactics and choose the right time for action. And it will be easier for you than for a person who does not know your friend at all. Secondly, you need to analyze the relationship between you that has already developed. Perhaps you are also loved, just a young man cannot say this in any way, suffers and is afraid to ruin friendship and lose you altogether. The special attitude of a young man can be seen in the little things. A loving person often touches you, cares about your convenience, and is very careful about your things. Perhaps this guy loves, but does not realize this, or maybe his feelings are fraternal, purely friendly. Try to make a preliminary diagnosis. Third, you need to investigate the situation on the personal front of the loved one. If he is not in a permanent relationship with the other (or the other), then you have a very good chance. If he is in a relationship with someone, the task becomes more difficult. Morality in love does not exist, but you can only interfere in other people's relationships if you have 100% confidence and you can prove that he will be better with you. If you try to break someone else's relationship for selfish reasons, it will not bring happiness, because the friend will be unhappy. Fourth, you need to write a letter with a declaration of love. The fact that you have chosen a person as a friend already indicates that he is a worthy person and will not offend you. Type the letter in a text editor to make it easier to edit, try to make it original and warm, state in it why the person should be with you, and why you love him so much. Give the letter and wait for a response, the loving person will be delighted. The one who is not sure will think, and the one who cannot love will honestly admit it. Clarity is better than the torment of unrequited love. Friendship will not suffer from such confessions, on the contrary, a good friend will begin to treat you even more carefully and this will make the relationship more trusting.
