Waiting for a phone call from a young man you like is very exhausting. If he hesitates and the phone is silent for a long time, unpleasant thoughts begin to appear in his head and his mood deteriorates. To shorten the waiting time, make sure that he calls first.
Instructions
Step 1
Let him know right away that you will not be the first to call. If you mutually exchanged numbers, he may passively wait for the first step from you. Therefore, make it clear that you love determined guys who are capable of taking the initiative. When parting, add that you will wait for his call.
Step 2
Do everything to make him want to call. To do this, you need to find common interests and create ease of communication. Laugh, joke, keep the conversation going, and if the guy can't figure out what to talk about, fill in the pause in the conversation.
Step 3
Keep it simple so that the young man is not afraid to call you. You don't need to play the role of the snow queen, answering his questions in monosyllables and arrogant. Men are also scared and embarrassed on first dates, so help him at least with your smile.
Step 4
Get involved in visualization. Sometimes it helps to sit down and imagine in detail how he calls, and then you talk. The main thing is to clearly see this picture and present the whole conversation in colors from beginning to end. When you really want something, the universe gets an impulse and tries to make it happen.
Step 5
Remind him of yourself with a short text message. You don't have to write a passionate and emotional letter. A short message is enough that expresses your location and reminds you of a pleasant pastime. For example, “thanks for last night” or neutral “good morning”. This way you will not be too intrusive, but show the guy that he can not be afraid to call - he is welcome.
Step 6
If you added it on a social network, you can subtly remind yourself of yourself. Click on the heart next to his post or on his photo. Change your avatar so that it appears in the news feed.
Step 7
Call first. Sometimes you can put aside shyness and dial the man's number. After all, silence does not always mean that he did not like you - he could have lost your phone or he has a negative balance. If the reaction is not pleasant, you can always say that you are just checking whose unsigned number it is.
Step 8
And when he calls after a long silence, you do not need to break down and express everything that you thought this time. Keep your emotions in check and talk as usual. If doubts and curiosity will overwhelm you, after a while jokingly ask “by the way, why didn’t you call for so long?”. But there is no need to express your claims, accusing the young man of indifference. If you know each other recently, such aggressive tactics can scare the guy and this will be his last call.
