You can't tell your mom about it and you don't gossip with your girlfriend. Such a strange idea cannot even occur to a decent girl. And yet - it comes. What is female bisexuality? For the first time this concept was introduced by Sigmund Freud and defined it as: "Natural versatility inherent in man by nature." Is being bisexual the norm?
Female bisexuality
The generally accepted theory of most modern sexologists can put the average woman in a stupor. They believe that female sexuality is much more flexible in terms of same-sex love than male sexuality, and that every woman is bisexual in nature. In particular, North American psychologists were the first to conduct formal research on this subject.
The controversial study, which took place at the University of Idaho at Boise, involved 484 ordinary women. The statistics of the experiment are relentless: 50% of the fair sex of the research group have thought about same-sex sex at least once in their life. 60% of women admitted that they are attracted to women. And 45% categorically stated that they once kissed a girl.
And yet, most great minds lean towards one thing: bisexuality is the result of human intelligence, not nature. In other words, any deviation from heterosexuality has nothing to do with the natural instinct aimed at procreation.
Signs of bisexuality
There is only one way to detect bisexuality: to notice in oneself an attraction to a same-sex person and to recognize his right to exist. It is impossible to recognize bisexuality by other methods only because each sign can contradict the other.
Short haircuts, unisex clothes or typically masculine behavior - all this can only speak about the individuality of a woman and not in any way affect her stable heterosexuality.
Nevertheless, at least once recognizing herself as bisexual, a woman is unlikely to ever back down from her choice. There may be periods of calm or unexpected bursts. The life of a bisexual woman is calm and measured, she does not distinguish between the sexes and is next to the person who at the moment is closest to her and desired.
At the American University of Utah, scientists were able to establish an indisputable fact: girls do not give up their sexual inclinations if they have already recognized themselves as fans of same-sex love. The study took place over 10 years, it involved young women aged 18 to 25 years (a total of 79 women with non-traditional sexual orientation). Over time, not a single woman has changed her inclinations.
Bisexuality Test - Klein Lattice
This test was created by Fritz Kleinham, based on the Alfred Kinsey Sexual Orientation Scale. The Klein grid will not reveal to a specific person something new about his personality, but it helps to self-identify sexually.
What does horizontal column mean:
- Past - events that have occurred over the past three years, not counting the last year lived.
- Present - events that have occurred in the last year of life.
- What you want is how a person imagines his ideal life.
How to decode vertical cells:
- Sexual Desire - Which Gender Arouses Your Most Sexual Desire?
- Sexual Behavior - Information about real sexual partners.
- Sexual fantasies - what gender are the dominant people in your dreams?
- Emotional Preferences - What gender do you feel most comfortable with?
- Social Preferences - What gender do you feel most secure with?
- Lifestyle - What gender are the dominant people in your company in real life?
- Self-determination - what sexual orientation do you consider yourself to be?
The Klein grid does not imply that a person can be asexual in some matters, so in some columns it is allowed to put the value "0". In other cases, each parameter is filled with numerical values from 1 to 7.
