Falling in love is a strong feeling (or a whole range of feelings) directed at a certain person. It can overtake both adolescents and adults, and both of them, being in this state, behave in about the same way. What if you find yourself in the place of a lover?
First, try to assess whether your sympathies are mutual / The fact that you, too, like the person you have feelings for, will tell a number of indirect signs. For example, if you catch the eye of the object of attention, and his (her) pupils dilate slightly when looking at you, then you are not uninteresting to your beloved (beloved).
If a man (woman) you like is trying in every possible way to attract your attention: he makes a new hairstyle, changes his image, behavior, tries to get closer in any possible way (both literally and figuratively), then this person probably has sympathy for you. Friends' jokes, shyness in your presence, and asking about your preferences are clear evidence that he or she cares about you. However, these same signs will give you away if you are in love.
Until love has completely overwhelmed you, decide for yourself whether it is worth showing your sympathy for the “object”. If a person cares about you, it makes no sense to be silent about your feelings. At the same time, it is important not to overdo it: there is a possibility that he (she) will not be able to appreciate your relationship at its true worth, or, under strong pressure from you, he will fence himself off and close, avoiding all kinds of contacts. Try to hint about your love as delicately as possible: this way the likelihood of being misunderstood will be reduced.
In the case of one-sided love, there are two ways: to suffer silently and endure, or try to win the sympathy of the person you like. Spend more time on your appearance, rest more often, try to get as much positive emotions from life as possible. Then you will attract the attention of not only one for whom you tried so hard, but also of many others. Remember, in order to fall in love with you, you need to be in love with yourself.
