Strong, sincere and open relationships between people are impossible without trust. It is measured by a person's willingness to talk about their experiences, joys and concerns. It is especially difficult to achieve trust between unfamiliar people.
Instructions
Step 1
Communicate a lot. The more time people spend with each other and the more they talk on various topics, the faster they will begin to feel calm and relaxed in each other's company, and this will contribute to the beginning of a trusting relationship.
Step 2
Start first. For trust to develop between people, someone must begin to show it. Let the initiative be in your relationship. Share your experiences, consult with a guy, ask for his opinion - in short, show that you are ready to make contact and deepen your relationship by developing trust.
Step 3
Show that your relationship is dear to you. Of course, if you assure a person of this day after day, then he may doubt your intentions and sincerity. Instead, make it a rule in conversations with others to protect the guy and support his decisions. Even if it is not easy for you, do not give up, but do so only if you really have an inner conviction in what you say and do.
Step 4
Don't gossip. Never allow yourself to speak negatively about a guy in conversations with others, and also do not have the habit of “washing bones” of people in conversations with him. Remember that if a person talks to someone about others, then he or she talks to others about who he is gossiping with. This is an invariable principle and a smart guy will be able to recognize your tendency to excessive talkativeness.
Step 5
Appreciate even a little trust. Don't take a guy's willingness to share his thoughts with you for granted. You need to understand that most guys find it much more difficult than women. Therefore, do not forget to thank him for the thoughts expressed and in the little things show that you are worthy of trust - do not spread the information you heard from him.
Step 6
Be patient. A person cannot start to trust automatically. He must feel with his soul that he is disposed towards you. Therefore, you need to be patient and wait for your boyfriend to notice your efforts, and will also be ready to trust you himself. Even if it takes longer than you thought, do not despair, such trust will not disappear due to a petty quarrel or misunderstanding.
