Building trust and understanding in the family is a fundamental element in achieving harmony, creating a cozy and comfortable environment for two without infringing on the interests of one. The ability to feel, trust, understand - this is what you need to strive for on the path to happiness.
When people begin to build family relationships, the main thing that should be present in them is trust, mutual understanding and love!
But starting from their previous relationships with people, no one has a 100% guarantee that you can completely trust your soul mate. Someone at least once in his life let down his trust, which is so often counted on.
But it is very important to build trusting relationships, because without trust, no one will have a quiet life. How to get out of this vicious circle? First of all, it is necessary to build on the correct subconscious of a person, and how he is configured to work on his thoughts. If one half constantly pesters the other person with their claims and distrust, he himself pushes the person to an unjustified act. The less one trusts, the more stupid things the other does. He gets tired of listening to all the discontent and unconfirmed claims. Negative energy is transmitted to him, as a result of which, it becomes better for him to spend time with someone else than to listen to reproaches addressed to him. Therefore, if one half does not want to lose their loved one, you need to do everything to make him (her) comfortable with this particular person.
You have to deal with your insecurities. The more a person values himself, the less bad thoughts come into his head that someone can let him down and deceive him.
Still, judging by the facts, when people completely trust each other, they have a lot in common - the other half is unlikely to be ready to lose this comfort for the sake of unnecessary deception.
It is very useful to introduce some kind of novelty into the relationship. There are couples who have lived together for many years. Everything seemed to be going well, both were comfortable and cozy, but there was a feeling that some kind of sharpness was already lacking. To do this, you need to diversify your routine life. For example, you can go somewhere to relax together or arrange a romantic evening. Men love it when they play with them, arrange role-playing games. Women should be a little mysterious, and each time they open up in front of their beloved man in a new way.
Less need to set conditions for each other. The more reproaches, the more you want to get rid of them. You need to comprehend for yourself that even though all the claims will be made, the person will not change, trust will not manifest out of nowhere. Either one half trusts the other, or must come to terms with the desires of the other half, or it is better to disperse altogether so as not to anger each other. People can change for the sake of another person only when they love him without memory.
From which it follows that it is easier to arouse the love of a person so that he is comfortable only with you and he does not want any deception. This can be done even in such a primitive way as simply sharing with him all his favorite activities. Never shout or swear. Anything that does not suit you should be discussed calmly and in a confidential tone.
All these tips, of course, will not be enough if there is no special spark and desire between people to build relationships together, to work on them daily.
And yet, the basic principle of a happy relationship is that first you need to think about your soul mate, then about you together, and last of all about yourself. If the other half thinks the same way, then ideal family relationships await such people!