If you want to be the perfect wife for your husband and a good mother for your child at the same time, you need to make an effort. Try, and you will acquire the ability to combine these qualities that are important for family life.
Instructions
Step 1
Build trust in your relationship with your husband. This is the key to a long, happy marriage. To learn more about each other and strengthen your bond, discuss the latest events in your life a couple of times a week. You can diversify your evenings of revelation with walks or hikes in the cafe.
Step 2
Don't let everyday life ruin your marriage. If you attach too much importance to household chores and do not want to understand a man who needs to rest on a day off, this can negatively affect your relationship. Know how to find a compromise and assign responsibilities. Talk to your husband. Surely there is some housework that he agrees to do, for example, taking out the trash, going to the store, vacuuming or fixing something.
Step 3
Don't force your significant other to do things that they don't want to do or discuss. This annoys the man and repels him. If your mom or friend can help you with any question, contact them. If it is your husband who can solve the problem, describe the situation to him and ask for help. You may not even have to ask, because, having appreciated your attitude in him, the man will do everything himself.
Step 4
Treat your child as a person. Do not talk down to him or belittle his problems. Perhaps it is harder for your son or daughter than for you, because they do not yet have the strength that you have. In addition, they are less adapted to life.
Step 5
Trust your child, and seeing this, he will do everything possible to justify your trust. If you are punishing him, explain why. Even if you are angry, make it clear that you love him. Try to calmly react to whims. The child should know what “no” and “no” are. Be sure to watch instructive films with him and read useful books. Discuss the behavior of the characters.
Step 6
Know how to distribute your attention and love between your spouse and children. To make sure you have enough for everyone, spend more time together. Go for a walk in the park with the whole family, visit your grandmother, go for a ride down the mountain, go to the children's theater, play, do the cleaning together or cook something delicious.
Step 7
Encourage your children and your husband. Fair praise works equally well for everyone. Do not forget to celebrate the achievements of your loved ones, show that you are proud of them. If you want to make a criticism, then let it be well substantiated.
Step 8
Make time for your loved ones, but do not forget about yourself. A woman who gives everything to others, sacrifices herself, her youth and interests only for the sake of her husband and children, causes pity and guilt in her family members. Yes, your family is important in your life, but it’s not your whole life.
