The attitude of men and women to love is very different. Sociologists say that a strong half of humanity is much more anxious about their professional activities than about their family or mistress. This is due to the peculiarities of thinking and priorities.
To be realized in society, you need to pay maximum attention to work, and this will allow you to get both status and income. That is why men prefer to do business and not think about love. It is more important for them to be needed in demand at work than in the family. They need to assert themselves in their place, constantly prove their worth and uniqueness. Love is a place of rest and recovery, but it is secondary.
Thinking of a man
Historically, a man supports his family, that he is a protector and a breadwinner. To realize these functions, you need to go to some kind of service to the world. It turns out that in order to become a good family man, you need to work. To love a woman, to show her your attitude, you need to give her not only attention, but also gifts, and this requires money, which again leads everything to work. All aspects of life are reduced to one, and this is what becomes at the forefront. If a man does not work, he quickly loses interest in life.
In the blood of men, competition, a desire to prove their superiority. Today it is no longer customary to measure strength in a fight, but you can defeat others with intelligence, skills, and abilities. You can prove that you are the best, the strongest, or the smartest. Where can this comparison be made? It is difficult to do this at home, it is stupid to compete with your wife or children, and victory will not bring satisfaction. And among other men, it is interesting, and achievements increase self-esteem, importance, significance. At work, even men often see women as rivals, personifies them with opponents who must be defeated.
Man and love
Any man needs love, this is a great feeling that inspires and gives strength for further work. The presence of a woman makes all victories meaningful, because now achievements can be put at the feet of your goddess. Being in love spurs a person to do more in life. But at the same time, it is important that the companion understands that, in addition to feeling, she also needs faith in her husband's achievements, support is needed along this path and the creation of comfortable conditions.
When love arises, a man rushes to conquer it. But it is not difficult to take the top, and therefore interest in it is gradually fading away. To keep a life partner, a woman needs to learn how to create convenience, comfort and coziness for him. It is to such a lady, to such a family that the spouse will come with pleasure, he will rest nearby, fill with strength, but still never put love above his realization in the outside world.
