The transitional age is the time of both physical changes in the child's body and internal. It is at this age that strong contradictions arise between the teenager and the parents. A new world opens up for a teenager with many interesting events and opportunities, but his freedom is still limited by the walls of his home and, for example, the need to return home at a certain time. In every family, such conflicts are experienced purely individually: someone gives the child more freedom than is required, and someone, on the contrary, controls every step of their child. What should parents do and how should adolescents themselves behave?
First of all, both parents and their children should learn to hear and understand each other. Adults should not interfere in all the affairs of their sons and daughters, it is necessary to leave room for their secrets and secrets, in which case the child himself will want to share his experiences and achievements with his parents. Ask questions, be interested in the life of your child, however, in no case try to read his diaries and open correspondence - by such actions you will only cause aggression and even greater misunderstanding. Adolescents, in turn, should not completely refuse to help their parents, should not try to distance themselves from them. The more trust there is on the part of the child, the more freedom there will be on the part of adults. In addition, in difficult situations, parental support is very important; you should not refuse it because of your own pride.
Adults should accept the time in which they live, try to keep up with the news. A teenager will be pleased if his parents are "fashionable" and will always be aware of what is happening in the world. In this case, he will be able to share his interests with them, because there will be more understanding between parents and children. You should not deprive your child of the opportunity to use modern technology, however, you should teach the teenager to be interested in other things: for example, do not forbid your son or daughter to play on the computer, however, do not forget to put a large cabinet in his / her room with interesting books suitable for him / her. age, take the child to a circle that will be interesting to him. Encourage the teenager's hobbies, since it is at this age that your support and support is important for him. A teenager, in turn, must understand that parents are not always able to keep track of technical innovations, so he can talk about them and share his experience, which, of course, will further strengthen the relationship between him and his family.
Build relationships with your loved ones on trust and mutual support, then all possible conflicts will bypass you, and understanding and harmony will reign in the family.
