Many women dream of getting married. For a long time, they represent marriage in pink colors. However, this is not always the case, and in family life every woman is faced with a host of problems, one of which may be communication with her mother-in-law.
Very often, communication with new relatives becomes a problem for a woman, because these are new people with their own beliefs, outlook on life and understanding. At the same time, you still have to contact, so it is important to initially find a common language and understanding. Situations often arise in young families when parents from one side or the other are trying to actively participate in the life of a young couple. So, the mother-in-law gives a lot of advice: how to run a household, raise children, what to buy, and so on. Of course, her life experience may be useful, but I want to live my own life and make my own decisions.
In such a situation, it is important to convey to your mother-in-law that you are an adult who is ready to solve all problems on your own, and if necessary, be sure to ask her for advice. It is worth communicating without irritation and negativity, because, most likely, her care and desire to help are sincere. It is very important to treat the shortcomings of the mother-in-law with understanding, because ideal people simply do not exist. It is worthwhile to initially build relationships in such a way that in the future there is no ambiguity in communication. If you do not want to accept her help and listen to her advice, you should keep your distance. In any case, it depends no less on you how your relationship with your mother-in-law will be built.
In addition, you need to try to follow a number of other rules. For example, in order to avoid unpleasant situations, it is undesirable to scold a husband in the presence of his mother. This can affect the future. If you do not like the appearance of your mother-in-law, do not pay special attention to this. It will be great if you yourself ask your mother-in-law for advice, although this is not necessary. It is especially helpful in your relationship with your mother-in-law when you ask your husband's mother for advice on the preferences of your beloved. This can create a relationship of trust.
The main thing to remember is that we must not forget about respect for the older generation, be it your parents or the parents of your spouse.
