Trust is the foundation of long-term, deep, meaningful relationships. If your plans for a particular girl are more than serious, first you need to earn her trust. This is quite difficult to do. However, making an effort if you doubt your feelings is not worth it, since you still cannot be completely sincere, and losing trust is easy.
Instructions
Step 1
It's simple. In order for her to trust you, you need to be completely honest with her. Honest in words, deeds, thoughts, expressions of feelings. She needs to see the true you. The way you are when you love, irritated, tired, offended, delighted. There should be no falsehood either in everyday life or during your romantic encounters. Be yourself. After all, a woman in love especially feels false.
Step 2
You need to get to know her. Not only beautiful, smart and smiling, but also irritated, angry, not wearing makeup. Her thoughts, reasoning, opinion - everything should be worthy of your attention. The main tool in achieving this goal is dialogue. Of course, the dialogue must be absolutely frank. Remember, if you ask a provocative question, it may be asked to you, and then you will have to answer honestly, because you cannot dissemble. During the dialogue, listen to what is being said to you. Make eye contact, don't interrupt, don't get distracted, try to understand the subtext. If a situation has arisen when you do not quite understand (or do not understand at all) what the speech is about, it is better to ask. There should be no reservations. In addition, a sincere desire to help and fulfillment of a promise is always disarming.
Step 3
Of course, relationships are not always quiet and smooth, hurricanes also happen. During an argument, girls are especially sensitive. Better to take a neutral position: "I respect your opinion, but I see this situation differently." Try not to be aggressive. During an argument, listen carefully to what she is talking about. Remember that only the strongest arguments will work in your favor.
The reward for your patience, attention and effort will be a relationship filled with caring, tenderness and trust.
