Trust is confidence in another person's sincerity and correct behavior. It is this factor that greatly influences the relationship between a man and a woman. It cannot be purchased for a fee, it cannot be made to experience it - it can only be earned. For example, a young man likes a girl very much, but she does not take him seriously, as she doubts his sincerity. How to be?
Instructions
Step 1
Be sincere with your girlfriend, don't let her doubt your words. If, nevertheless, you lied somewhere and the truth "reached" your beloved, be sure to explain to her the reason for this behavior and be honest here.
Step 2
Always try to apologize for your wrong actions. Learn to do it right without using the dry phrase “Okay, excuse me. I won't be like this anymore!"
Step 3
In a quarrel, do not shout at her, do not show aggression, and even more so do not raise your hand. You are a mentally normal person and are able to solve everything in calm tones. During a showdown, listen to what she has to say, then analyze and choose a further technique of behavior.
Step 4
Be responsible for your words, that is, if you have promised something, be sure to keep the promise. Remember, you have to be reliable! If you doubt that you can do it, it is better not to take on this business.
Step 5
Don't put on a "mask". Be yourself, you don't need to turn into an actor, because life is not a game. Please note that the mask will fall off sooner or later. And then what? Then the girl may simply get angry about this performance and stop trusting you at all, which in turn will lead to a break in relations.
Step 6
Communicate with her more, be an open person, do not become isolated, as this will immediately lead her to the idea that you are hiding something. Tell her about your life, ask how her life is going. You should learn as much as possible about her, including telling about yourself.
Step 7
If for some reason you have lost confidence, admit your mistake. Explain to the girl why this happened. Tell me how you value it and do not want to lose it. The path to gaining a trusting relationship is sometimes long and difficult, if you really value your beloved, do everything so that she does not doubt you.
