Increasingly, women are complaining about the absence of a life partner. There are many reasons why men do not stick with the fair sex. Studying this problem, psychologists have identified several types of women who involuntarily push men away from themselves.
Often, women wonder why they don't have a relationship with the opposite sex. It seems that just yesterday he was asking for a date, trying to get favored. And suddenly he disappeared from life: he left in English or with a scandal, accusing her of all mortal sins. As a result, there are tears and often lack of self-confidence. Why is this happening? Psychologists tried to find an answer to this question, who identified seven main types of women from whom men run away.
Seven types of women men run away from
1. Overconfident
An overly self-confident woman, as a rule, is betrayed by her attitude towards the environment and the man. At first glance, it seems that everything is fine with her in life, she is purposeful, unique, independent, independent, relies on herself in everything. She is unlikely to allow her companion to pay for herself in a cafe, proving to him that she is quite well off and earns good money. In communication, such a woman, as a rule, demonstrates her stability and independence, as well as constant employment and lack of time for "trifles". In general, such a lady descends from heaven, only in order to once again remind her happy companion how lucky he is, although, in her opinion, he is not always worthy of such unearthly beauty as she is. Naturally, next to such a self-confident woman, not every man is able to withstand for a long time.
2. Too emotional, or hysterical
At first glance, such a woman is very emotional. And it seems that everything always suits her. In a relationship with a man, she believes that he just has to perceive her for who she is. And in order to prove her innocence, she often rolls up scandals, sheds tears for no particular reason and often breaks dishes. Even if at first he rushes to wipe her tears and calm her down, over time he will get tired of it. At best, he will remain with his companion, and will be mentally exhausted, nervous, at worst - he will go to where he will be calmer.
2. Excessively correct, or excellent student
Such a woman can be seen from afar. It is correct from head to toe. She has complete order in her house: cups on a shelf with handles turned to one side, dishes by color, linen - too, each item has its own place. She has no bad habits and strictly adheres to the daily routine. And she even seems to have sex on a schedule. The more a man learns about such a woman, the sooner he wants to part with her. Otherwise, he will have to give up many of his hobbies, including harmful ones. Therefore, in order not to frighten off a man, an overly correct woman should be allowed at least sometimes to allow her companion to be in his native "element", allowing him not to put away his socks or make up the dishes incorrectly.
4. Excessive refinement, or Turgenev's young lady
Excessive sophistication is another trait in a woman that can propel a man to flee. She reread all the classics, loves music, theater. Blushes and turns pale even from a harmless kiss on the cheek. Ordinary men with their earthly interests, communicating with "Miss Finesse", often feel uncomfortable. And soon, as a rule, such relationships come to naught. Indeed, in addition to quoting classics, you also need to be able to cook.
5. Overly caring, or "mommy"
Oddly enough, over-caring for a partner usually strains men, who by their nature value their own freedom. At the beginning of a relationship, such attention can be gratifying.
And who is not pleased when a ready-made breakfast awaits him on the table, an ironed shirt carefully matched to a suit weighs on a hanger? As a rule, such a woman takes care of all the worries about her companion. And then he attributes to himself all his victories, joys, sorrows and defeats. Caring for her partner always comes first. But sooner or later, such overprotectiveness will lead to discontent and "rebellion".
6. Manic desire to get married, or the eternal bride
Stories about family values, an excessive desire to build your own family nest can alert a partner who, on the second day of acquaintance, is introduced to the parents of the future bride. Perhaps he himself is not against marriage, but you should not frighten him with your impatience. A man needs to be given time to make a decision and develop events according to his plan. Otherwise, the suspicion will wake up in him that the family nest may turn out to be a corral for a calf.
7. Too businesslike, or convinced careerist
Such a woman constantly thinks about a career, promotion about the career ladder. Business is the only thing that interests her in life.
Naturally, men, as a rule, do not always perceive such zeal for work positively. Indeed, in the traditional understanding of the stronger sex, a woman, first of all, is the keeper of the family hearth, mother and wife. In a relationship with a career woman, the status of a "second half" is often transformed into a "good friend" and "interlocutor."
Work on bugs
To maintain a relationship between a man and a woman, the fairer sex needs to work on herself. Especially if she already had a sad experience before. And for this, and try to find out the reason why men run away from her. In this case, classes with a psychologist or attending special courses and trainings, reading special books can come to the rescue. In general, work on yourself and your own mistakes is only welcome.
Not everything is lost
However, if you cannot change yourself, you should not despair. After all, every rule has an exception. And this means that mothers, hysterics, and careerists can find their prince. The main thing is not to rush. And, perhaps, he will soon appear on the horizon himself.
