Many adults do not take children's grievances seriously, because it seems to them that a child, due to his age, can be offended only by some little things, for example, that his mother did not buy a new toy or forbade him to play a computer game for an extra half hour. Such grievances do happen, and they really are not too serious. However, along with them, there are more serious experiences that arise through the fault of the parents.
Instructions
Step 1
Moms and dads do not always behave correctly in relations with their children, sometimes, without noticing it, they do things that are unacceptable to do with a child, or they say absolutely inappropriate phrases to the baby.
Step 2
It is easiest to offend with words and deeds, and the parents themselves quite sincerely may not even notice this. For example, an ordinary slap for some small offense, which parents perceive as an educational moment, can greatly offend a child. Physical punishment, in principle, cannot be used in the upbringing process, since they humiliate the child's personality, and this will certainly affect his future life. The child is crying not because it hurts him from the next slap, but because the baby is upset to tears that his parents treat him that way. Punishments should be different, more humane and less dangerous for the child's personality.
Step 3
Screaming also offends children very much, but many parents regularly raise their voices to their children, with or without reason. When a parent screams, the child does not understand the whole essence of this cry, he is not able to understand why exactly mom or dad raised their voice. He simply begins to be wildly afraid of his parents at first, and then resentment settles in his heart, which acts destructively. It is enough to look into the eyes of a child during his own cry to understand how terribly he acts on children.
Step 4
Ignoring on the part of the parents is, too, incredibly offensive for the child. It is important for children to be given attention, they need it, so they try to attract it to themselves in every possible way. If parents constantly ignore their child, then the entrance will not be the best methods of attracting attention. The child will notice that in most cases, parents pay attention to him when he is guilty. Yes, in this case, they shout at the child, but still, the attention of mom and dad is entirely his. Accordingly, the baby will deliberately behave disgustingly to be noticed.
