Not so long ago, there was an increased interest in indigo children on the part of society and the scientific world. Psychologists put forward theories in favor of the uniqueness of their minds, esotericists assigned them a special mission, cinema presented them in the form of an incompletely studied, but powerful weapon, the media supported the excitement around indigo children with pseudo-scientific programs.
Instructions
Step 1
The definition of "indigo children" entered the lexicon thanks to the psychic Nancy Ann Tapp, who noticed that since the late 70s, children began to appear, whose aura has an unusual color. But is this the only difference between an indigo child? In certain circles, it is believed that these are special children: they came from the future, marked by many talents and paranormal abilities. It's time for ordinary non-indigo parents to think about how to communicate with them.
Step 2
First of all, it is necessary to remember that an indigo child is not a strange animal, not a mutant, not a creature with a superintelligence. It's just a child. He, like anyone else, needs unconditional parental love, support and understanding. He needs to instill universal human values, explain at first what is good and what is bad in this life, how one can act and what should not be done.
Step 3
But still, there are features that need to be considered when dealing with indigo children. Very early on, they become holistic personalities, striking their parents with not childishly adult judgments and assessments of life events. It may be flattering for adults to have a little sage in the family, but this feature has a downside. Their childhood ends too early. The more you give them affection and love in the early years, the more happy memories they will have of this time.
Step 4
Indigo children are extremely negative about the authoritarian parental "no" and any form of pressure, if they are not supported by a logical explanation. Talk to your child on an equal footing, take the time to explain, so you will quickly achieve the desired result. Most of the communication should be done in a trusting rather than instructive manner.
Step 5
Indigo children have great potential. And this is not necessarily a brilliant genius from infancy or anomalous talents. But many things are easy to understand. They are blessed with creativity and good memories. If you see that your child is interested in something, support him.
Step 6
Do not impose on them your point of view about how the world works, do not force them to one or another religion. Indigo children have their own worldview, they intuitively understand what and how is happening in this life. When the time comes, they themselves will determine which religion suits them best, or will completely abandon it in favor of the system that their inner "I" prompts.
Step 7
Very often, indigo children have a heightened sense of justice, and the moral criteria in assessing others are extremely high. It's not enough for you to be just a mom or dad to get the respect of a child. He recognizes your authority only if you confirm the right to him by your actions. If your behavior differs from the "correct" one for the worse, it will not cause aggression or neglect in your child, but will simply make him unhappy.
