Being the wife of a border guard is not an easy and responsible choice. Not everyone will be able to withstand the constant delays at work, the frequent absence of weekends and spend lonely evenings and nights waiting for a tired husband …
Instructions
Step 1
You need to be aware of the full burden of responsibility that rests on the shoulders of your loved one. Your man is a representative of the noblest profession, he vigilantly guards the borders of his state, peace and tranquility in the homes of ordinary citizens. You should treat this with understanding - he himself chose this profession, respect his choice. Indeed, in the night watch that fell unexpectedly, like a snow on his head, he is not guilty - then why are you making scandals for him about the failed trip to the cinema? He himself understands perfectly well that you are upset, but he cannot do anything with the order of his superiors.
Step 2
We'll have to get used to "life on suitcases." Your husband can be transferred to another outpost at any time, you will have to collect things in a hurry. Like the military, border guards are provided with an apartment for the duration of their stay, if they don't have their own. Quite often, the transfer is reported at the last moment, so you have to live light. A set of dishes for 26 persons, five carpets and a collection of rare books can be transported every time from place to place, but it is quite problematic.
Step 3
If you decide to have a baby, you have to become a housewife. A rare border outpost has its own kindergarten, so most likely you will have to sit with your child on your own. Alternatively, you can send the child to live with your parents or husband. But can you part with your own offspring, which will grow far from you? And not every man will allow his wife to sacrifice raising a child for the sake of a career. That is why only 20-30% of the wives of border guards work.
Step 4
The husband's workload at work is not a reason for cheating. Sometimes, due to the increased employment of your husband, it may seem to you that he pays little attention to you, does not shower you with compliments and flowers, does not take you to restaurants … Do not try to compensate for this with betrayal - a border guard husband, like any other man, is unlikely to forgive you like this weakness.
