The first sex for girls is a serious and exciting event that largely determines their further attitude towards sexuality. To avoid the failure of the first sex and enter into sexual relations without psychological trauma, psychologists recommend following a few simple rules.
Almost everyone knows that with the loss of virginity, first of all, you need to relax as much as possible and forget about all your complexes about the body - after all, if a man is in bed with a woman, then her shortcomings worry him least of all. For relaxation, it is recommended to drink a little (a little!) Red wine, dim the lights in the room, turn on quiet slow music … in a word, create a cozy and romantic atmosphere in which both partners will feel comfortable and easy. It is also advisable to take care in advance that no one bothers the lovers, and prepare a bottle of lubricant, which, if necessary, will greatly facilitate penetration, saving the girl from unpleasant sensations.
When having sex for the first time, not only should you pay enough attention to foreplay - it is also important to study your partner's body, ideally asking the man about his sexual habits and preferences. At the same time, the partner must do the same - thanks to frankness in bed, the first sex can become truly unforgettable and magical. As for the poses for the first night, then the best options here are not acrobatic somersaults, gleaned by the girls from carefully studied glossy magazines. To make the loss of virginity as uncomfortable as possible, it is recommended to use the missionary position, in which the partner can control the man's movements. In addition, in this position, eye contact is very important - face to face, thanks to which the partner can monitor the partner's reaction to their actions.
