The first sex is not always successful. Partners are ashamed of each other, pinched, it is not possible to get pleasure. To prevent this from happening, you need to prepare well for the first lovemaking.
Instructions
Step 1
Making love to a new partner is always a surprise. You don't know what he likes, he doesn't know how to please you. Of course, it is better to discuss everything in advance. But the partner does not always have the courage to talk about such things before sex, usually all the details are discussed after.
Step 2
To get the most out of it, create the right atmosphere well. Get in the mood for a romantic meal in a tranquil setting with good music. So you can relax, forget about troubles at work, bad weather and a broken car.
Step 3
Head home after dinner. Don't go straight to the bedroom. Give each other the opportunity to get used to the change of scenery, to look around. You can sit in the kitchen, sip champagne, or sit on the couch in the living room with a glass of wine. Turn on the music and dim the lights so that nothing distracts you from each other.
Step 4
When you know you are ready, move to the bedroom. The first time is better to have sex in the dark. It will help you overcome embarrassment and confusion and make you more confident.
Step 5
During the process, talk to your partner about your feelings. Especially if you are hurt, uncomfortable, unpleasant. You are having sex for the first time, and your lover does not yet know how to please you. If you are embarrassed to say something, change your posture or use your hand to push to the correct position. And be more active. Having sex with a new partner for the first time is not the first time. Show that you can and love to give pleasure. This is greatly appreciated by partners.
Step 6
After sex, tell her that you enjoyed it. Lie next to your partner, caress him. Be honest. Make it clear that sex is not the end of a romance, but the very beginning. That you are interested in your partner as a person, and not just an object for making love. This is very important the first time, when the lovers are not yet fully confident in each other.
