It is known that the loss of virginity often becomes painful or simply unpleasant for girls. In turn, they often wonder if guys are experiencing something similar during their first sex.
Physiological characteristics of men
Most often, the first sexual intercourse is painless for guys and delivers only pleasant sensations. However, this requires the man to be completely healthy, since some diseases can lead to pain and negative sensations. First of all, these are the anatomical features of the structure of the penis. If it is large, it becomes more difficult to penetrate the girl's vagina, especially if she is a virgin. At the same time, the foreskin of the genital organ also has a different structure and in some cases its friction against the walls of the vagina can cause unpleasant sensations, and not only in the first, but also in subsequent sexual intercourse. Also, phimosis leads to this - narrowing of the foreskin, which is why a man experiences pain during sex. These problems can be easily solved in an operational way.
The pleasant sensations during the first and subsequent intercourse can be significantly reduced if a man uses a condom. Using certain models of condoms can chafe the skin and head of the penis, causing difficulty in erection and ejaculation. Also, using a condom is a matter of habit, and if a guy puts it on for the first time, he will most likely not be very comfortable.
Other causes of discomfort
Regardless of the physiological characteristics of a man, it can be unpleasant and even painful for him during intercourse if the woman's vagina does not produce enough lubricant. In this case, it is recommended to carry out more foreplay and arouse the girl more in order to increase the secretion of lubricant, or use special preparations - lubricants.
The mental state of a man can also differ during the first intercourse. Often, guys are very anxious before the first sex, in connection with which there may be a decreased erection or, on the contrary, too fast ejaculation, which leads to inadequate and even painful intercourse. It is better to tune in to the first sex and start it at the right moment when both partners are ready for this.
The choice of postures during first sex plays an important role in providing pleasant sensations to both partners. If the wrong position was chosen, difficulties may arise with penetration into the girl, unpleasant sensations during frictions, etc. That is why during intercourse you should communicate with each other and ask about feelings, showing concern not only for yourself, but also for your partner.
