Anal sex can be enjoyable or painful. It all depends on how relaxed the woman is. In addition, good lubricants minimize discomfort and make the process easy and enjoyable.
There are no secrets between spouses - how to decide on anal sex
Anal sex is the dream of many men. But women are afraid of pain and deny their partners this pleasure. However, to whom, if not two loving people, it makes sense to try new sensations? Variety in sex will help make the union stronger, provide passion for years to come.
For anal sex, special lubricants are produced that have increased antibacterial and moisturizing properties.
Before trying anal sex, spouses should talk. The main thing is to find out if the woman has problems with the colon. Anal fissures, hemorrhoids, will turn sex into torment. And the partners should also agree in advance that if the woman wants to stop the experiment, she will say so, and the man will stop. Under such conditions, even the most shy partner can agree to a new type of sexual entertainment.
How to have anal sex so it doesn't hurt
In order for anal sex not to cause painful sensations, a man must sufficiently arouse his partner. You can do this through oral sex, or by having traditional sex first. When the woman is aroused enough, you can try inserting a lubricated finger into the anus. If the partner does not hurt, then it is worth trying to insert the penis - but not very deeply. Lubricants, in addition to the function of lubrication, have an antibacterial effect. This is very important, since during sex, microcracks can appear on the thin skin, into which the infection can penetrate.
Anal sex must be protected, especially with a partner in whom there is no confidence. Of course, pregnancy is unlikely with him, but getting sick with venereal disease and AIDS is very easy.
Keep in mind that the skin inside the anus is very delicate, you do not need to make sudden movements. At first, you will have to proceed slowly and carefully. If the process does not hurt your partner, you can accelerate the pace. But at the slightest inconvenience, it is better to stop. Intense anal sex can lead to fissures in the anus. Then there will be sore inflamed areas that will have to be treated for a long time.
Not every woman enjoys anal sex, but sometimes, for a change, you can try it too. If you follow all the rules described above, the process will become as painless and enjoyable as possible.
