Sexually liberated girls are common today. However, research shows that many of them mimic both their sexual desire and orgasm. Most of the fair sex have never received sexual gratification. And the partner was not always to blame.
Fears and Circumstances
Sexologists note: the main problem of girls in bed is the inability to relax and completely surrender to desires. This is due to a chilling feeling of fear. The fear of certain things, concentration on them, and not on the process, does not allow girls to experience orgasms.
The first reason is the fear of getting pregnant. The girl constantly thinks that the condom might break or painfully remembers whether she took a pill today. Such thoughts are the enemies of sexual pleasure. They keep the girl in suspense and do not allow her to concentrate on the process. Even less pleasure can be experienced by those representatives who practice natural methods of contraception, in particular, interrupted intercourse.
The second popular fear is the fear of appearing to your partner as fat / bony / pimpled, etc. Remember: at the moment of sexual arousal, a man does not pay attention to your barely noticeable cellulite or slightly protruding tummy. And it is not shyness that will help you hide flaws, but, on the contrary, active actions. In this case, orgasm will become more likely.
Fear of expressing your desires is the third common reason for not having an orgasm. In a regular relationship with one partner, the fear of appearing too relaxed should be thrown aside. Feel free to guide your man by showing him your most erogenous zones. Their stimulation will help you to relax and surrender to the surging pleasure.
Common Causes of Not Orgasm
Often the man is to blame for the woman's lack of orgasm. For example, he may be too rude or inept in bed. Insufficient foreplay and a desire to satisfy exclusively their own needs lead to the fact that even very sensual girls do not experience an orgasm.
An increased male desire to help a woman achieve orgasm can also negatively affect bed relationships. The partner's persistence forces the girl to focus not on the process, but on the result. The natural state of affairs and full enjoyment of each other will help to avoid disappointment. As practice shows: the lack of orgasm can be associated with both insufficient and too strong arousal of one of the partners.
The psychological factor is often the reason for the absence of a female orgasm. Unsuccessful past relationships, violent sexual contacts, mistrust between partners contribute little to quality sex. Some girls go for a new intimacy solely out of "politeness" and fear of losing a man. If you love your partner and want mutual pleasure, take the trouble to get to know her better.
