In a lover's relationship, it's important to show your feelings to each other. Having a romantic candlelit dinner is not a bad idea, but sometimes things don't go as planned. The reason for this can be quite common mistakes that couples often make.
Preparatory work
Find the right time. You don't have to choose a weekday when you and your husband are tired after work, and you have to get up early tomorrow. Invite your spouse to meet with friends on Saturday, but warn not to be late. We can say that in the evening you will surprise him so that he thinks about you all day and is intrigued.
Children and a romantic candlelight dinner do not go well together. After all, afterwards you most likely want to indulge in love pleasures, and the child behind the wall will restrain you and prevent you from relaxing. Ask your parents or, as a last resort, a friend to sit with the baby while you arrange a surprise for your husband.
Plan the menu so that the man does not go hungry, but also does not overeat. Some girls arrange a "dinner" of fruits, cheese and wine, but for the stronger sex it is just an appetizer. Too large portions will also ruin the evening - too much food makes you drowsy and the evening can end too quickly. You can cook his favorite dish, but serve in small portions. Put cheese, fruit on a plate so that you can have a snack after love joys. Find the right wine or champagne for your meal.
Choose the right outfit. A candlelit dinner will not have the desired effect if you meet your husband in a robe and no makeup. Put on beautiful underwear, an evening dress, an elegant hairdo, and a little makeup.
Mistakes during a romantic candlelight dinner
Large amounts of alcohol. You can drink a couple of glasses to tune in the desired mood, but not more. Don't give your man too much to drink so as not to ruin the rest of the evening.
Don't force the man to follow the script. It is likely that when planning a romantic dinner, you took ideas from films or magazines. But your man may not support your ideas. For example, he may not want to dance or share a bubble bath. There is no need to spoil the evening with resentment, because you are doing it for him. You can take your time with other things that will interest both of you. Consider several options for the development of events, and the evening will be perfect.
Don't forget to continue your romantic dinner in bed. Some girls naively believe that after having a snack and dancing under the dim candlelight, men remain satisfied and do not need anything else. But, as a rule, they just steadfastly wait for the scene in bed, where they can get real pleasure.
