Family relationships are one of the most difficult issues faced by a young couple. It is far from always possible to achieve mutual understanding, which ultimately leads to a break in relations. Knowing some of the main points will help maintain trust in the family and live in peace and harmony for many years.
Even if he and she marry for love, family relationships are still far from easy and not immediately built. Two people who existed separately begin to live together. Moreover, everyone has their own habits, their own understanding of life and family relationships.
Respect each other
It is difficult to find a family in which quarrels never arise. At the same time, the ability to extinguish them, or even better, to prevent them, is of great importance. How can this be achieved? First of all, showing respect for your significant other. And this respect should be shown in everything from an understanding of character traits to a respectful attitude towards personal interests.
In a family, it is very important to support each other in a variety of issues. Imagine a situation: your loved one is interested in something, decided to achieve something in a particular area. He has big plans, he is eager to try his hand. And then you tell him that all this is nonsense and he will not succeed. This behavior is like a stab in the back. Support, advice, participation was expected from you. You not only did not help, but, on the contrary, did everything in order to completely destroy the dreams and aspirations of your soul mate.
That is why be patient, sympathetic. Moral support is very important - when a person is supported, when they believe in him, his eyes are burning, there is a desire to do something, to create, to achieve something. And when there is an attitude, there are results. Conversely, when a person is told all the time that he is a loser or a loser, that he or she will fail, it becomes very difficult to achieve success. It is necessary to have just an iron will in order to come to the goal in spite of unbelief.
Learn to forgive
Forgiving is one of the cornerstones of family life. All people make mistakes: sometimes they do something wrong, say something offensive, do not live up to expectations. What to do in such a situation - to be offended, to kick back? The correct option is to forgive. The one who loves, knows how to forgive. He understands that everything was not done out of malice, not on purpose. It happened. A smile, a kiss is enough - and all grievances safely remain in the past.
It is not for nothing that the Holy Fathers say that love covers everything. She can forgive a lot - at the same time, do not endlessly experience the love of a person dear to you. A person can really forgive a lot, but if he sees that he is not loved, that all his participation, kindness, forgiveness do not find an answer, his patience may come to an end. Love will simply go away - precisely because there is no reciprocity.
To live happily together for many years, you need to appreciate each other. Respect, help, support. Treat with care and concern. To see in your husband or your wife not just a fellow traveler, a person with whom fate has accidentally brought you, but one who is destined for you by God. Who is sent to you so that you learn something - become better, kinder, more tolerant.
