The main motto of modern society is to be free! Free from prejudice, from obligations, including from marriage bonds. But love has not been canceled, and people, like 50, 100 years ago, meet, fall in love … and then a little differently, as in a famous song - they are not going to marry. So they live in a so-called civil marriage for a year, two, five, ten years. Why? What is the advantage of this type of relationship?
The first is the illusion of freedom, for some reason it is believed that if you do not have a stamp in your passport, you are free. But this is not the case. The same way of life, the same problems, the same responsibilities, only in a civil marriage we warm ourselves up with the thought that we can always leave without the tiresome divorce proceedings. But you can't throw a person out of your heart …
Second, many young couples cannot save up for a wedding. This is logical, now weddings are celebrated mainly in restaurants, in beautiful expensive outfits, etc. Yes, a wedding requires a decent investment, which is unlikely to pay off. So the young people live for years, and the money once set aside for a wedding will be better spent on vacation, a car - why marry, after all, they are already fine !?
The third is the desire, so to speak, to check whether we can be together. This is never superfluous, but it is better to check for a maximum of six months or a year, because then you will still bring a lot of surprises to your friend, and people change. In this case, you never know what awaits you and the same illusion of freedom turns on again - I will leave if I understand that this is not my person.
The basis of life together is affection, love, she does not pay attention to cliches. Only when you live in a civil marriage are you nobody to each other. According to the documents. That's the way we live … Without a piece of paper you are a bug, but with a piece of paper - a man!
It so happened that in our country, everything should be written on a piece of paper, and even that you love each other, and that you have children and much, much more. It is much easier when your relationship is official, and you can leave always, from everyone and whenever you want…. What do you think about this?
