Let the presence of children not be an obstacle for you on the way to a new marriage. It is very important for a woman to be close to her beloved man. And children also feel better in a complete family, where understanding and love reign.
Instructions
Step 1
If you want to improve your personal life and get married, do not give up this prospect just because you have a child. For a real man who loves you and wants to connect fate with you, having a son or daughter will not be a hindrance. Your baby, too, will not blame his mother for linking her life with another young man. The main thing is to choose a worthy life partner and correctly convey the situation to your child.
Step 2
Explain to your child that since your dad is not living with you, you may have a new friend. Your baby should understand that they are not trying to replace his father. If possible, this person will forever remain in his life. Tell him that no one will restrict his communication with the parent.
Step 3
When choosing a potential groom, give preference to more mature men who are ready for marriage and having a child. Your chosen one should not be too young. Try to find someone with a serious attitude towards family, a stable job, and a common outlook with you.
Step 4
Don't hide the fact that you have a child. As soon as you feel that a strong contact has been established between you and the man you like, invite him to get to know your baby. Do not pressure your partner if you see that he is doubting. Give him time. However, it is also not worth delaying the meeting of your beloved man and your child for a very long time.
Step 5
Once your man and child have met, give them a chance to get used to each other. Spend more time together, walk, play, get positive emotions. Pay attention to how your chosen one treats your child. If you see genuine sympathy and joy from communication, everything is in order.
Step 6
When building a relationship with your chosen one, it is important for you to pay attention to both the child and your loved one. However, if your baby categorically does not accept your new acquaintance and even after a certain time cannot find contact with him, you cannot let this situation go by itself. You can make your child unhappy if there is someone in your home who is unpleasant to him.
Step 7
Remember that you have a double responsibility for the kind of person that becomes your spouse. It's great if your man treats your child well. But if he considers him a hindrance - do not hesitate, go in search of a new partner.
Step 8
It's okay if your man already has children of his own. If he brings them up alone, then you just need to introduce and make friends with your kids. Perhaps in the future you will become one big, happy family.
