The first impression is everything. At least 50% of the success of your future relationship depends on it. Maybe more. The first date is not only a chance to show your best sides, but also to play a little with each other's imaginations. Make him and your heart beat a little faster and get real pleasure out of it.
1. Look irresistible.
If the first date is 50% of the success of your relationship, then the appearance is 50% of the success of your first date. Whether you are entering a cafe, turning around a corner or getting out of the car - a couple of minutes while you are heading to your chosen one decides a lot. Observing you, he already evaluates and, no matter how cynical it may sound, tries you on to himself. Don't be angry, you do it too! Of course, it doesn't matter what color you choose. The main thing is that you feel stunning, while not forgetting about the sense of proportion. Choose from elegant silhouettes, high heels and stylish accessories. When it comes to makeup, focus on the eyes, but don't overdo it with intensity. A drop of your favorite perfume will complement your look and make you irresistible.
2. Enchant with a smile.
Finally, you have met. Your bodies are closer, your hearts are beating faster. Be careful, this wonderful moment can easily be spoiled by empty household chatter (terrible traffic jams, etc.). No extra words needed, just catch his eye, smile, and say something like, "What a wonderful day today, isn't it?" Then leave the initiative of the conversation in his hands.
3. Listening more than talking.
You sat down at a table and the conversation began. Again, remember about restraint in words, do not seek to tell each other everything about your life in the first half hour of acquaintance. Believe me, you will have many opportunities ahead for this. If a man loves to talk, do not deprive him of this pleasure. If the gentleman is not talkative, ask questions. At the end of the evening, you should leave the man feeling that he has known you for many years and at the same time does not know anything about you. Therefore, talk less about yourself. Also, avoid talking about problems and negativity. Your task is simply to give each other a pleasant evening.
4. Captivate your eyes.
The look has a huge impact on the first date. Remember the “to the corner - to the nose - to the object” technique? It still hasn't lost its relevance. If you feel that the man is looking at you, slowly raise your eyelids, looking first to the side and then down. Then, with a sharp wave of eyelashes, direct your gaze directly to him. Look deeply and honestly into his eyes, it will disarm any man.
5. Leave in time.
To keep the thrilling intrigue alive, initiate the ending of the evening yourself. If your chosen one offers to accompany you, politely refuse. Refer to urgent matters and call a taxi. This will spur his interest in your life. In no case should you ask him to give you a lift to your home or subway. Walking together is fine, but save it for next time. Maintain a slight mystery, give the man the pleasure of solving you gradually.
