International marriages are not uncommon these days. People meet, people fall in love, even get married - neglecting distances and regardless of the color of the skin and the difference in cultures and mentalities.
Instructions
Step 1
If you have not yet met your Chinese betrothed - on vacation, at school or being on a business trip in the Middle Kingdom, contact the help of dating sites, of which there are a great many on the Internet. Place the most successful photo, in your opinion, preferably taken not so long ago, so that you look on it exactly as you look now. Consult a professional photographer if necessary. Fill out the form, tell us about yourself, your hobbies, dreams, outlook on life. Do not hide important information - about age, possible children, divorces, etc. Do not paint an ideal image, do not embellish reality. If a person likes you, it is important that he likes you, and not the character you invented. Do not start communication even with an innocent, but a lie. Keep in mind that 99% of men stop communicating after learning about omitted details.
Step 2
Before starting a correspondence with candidates, read about China, learn about its cultural traditions, history, art. If you don't speak English, it's time to start learning it: you can easily correspond on the website using an electronic translator, but sooner or later you will want more lively communication - say, in Skype, and this can already cause difficulties. You can, of course, immediately swing at Chinese, but first, master at least a few simple words and expressions in order to greet and say goodbye to your interlocutor in his native language. Mutual interest in culture and language always disposes people to each other.
Step 3
When communicating with your chosen one, follow the simple rules of decency: do not be intrusive, aggressive, demanding, do not hint at the desire to receive a gift. If the relationship develops and more and more often there is a desire to communicate in person, it is better if your first meeting takes place on your territory. And only after getting to know your Chinese groom better, accept the invitation to come to him.
Step 4
Keep in mind that the Chinese Sexual Revolution started relatively recently, so don't expect romantic manifestations from your Chinese friend, especially in public. The Chinese are very restrained in feelings, but at the same time caring and attentive to their partners. Be aware of the fact that the male half of the inhabitants of the Celestial Empire has a strong cult of the mother, so try to make a good impression on her and accustom yourself in advance to the idea that your future mother-in-law will take an active part in the life of your couple.
Step 5
The pluses of Chinese men include their non-spoiledness and undemandingness. After all, as you know, the male population of China greatly outnumbers the female population. This demographic imbalance has provoked high male competition. Therefore, we can say that your Chinese friend is as interested in you as you are in him. In addition, in the Middle Kingdom, it is considered prestigious to have a wife of Slavic origin. The Chinese strive to create a strong and friendly family, they are very responsible. And if your aspirations coincided, then most likely, the desire to marry a Chinese is quite feasible.
