It is no longer fashionable to dream of a prince on a white horse. Pragmatic young people of the 21st century prefer a secure future and a bright present. And, although everyone has different ideals, the general tendencies of finding a decent guy can be distinguished.
What is good?
In order to find your ideal one, you first need to take care of yourself. Only the best girl should match the best young man. Therefore, constant self-improvement will allow you to raise the bar when looking for a betrothed. In addition, knowledge of a foreign language, the basics of massage or a couple of signature dishes will become a tempting "hook" when catching a decent fish.
Do not forget about your own appearance. Who knows, maybe fate will be around the corner of a neighboring building or will appear on the way for bread? And, if a respectable young man in a stylish suit and fashionable watches equals Mademoiselle in stretched sweatpants, mutual love at first sight is unlikely to happen.
In order not to get confused and, roughly speaking, not to be too cheap, you need to think over to the smallest detail the image of the best person in the world. It is only important to highlight what really plays a significant role, and what is an accompanying criterion, a pleasant addition. Having put such a picture in your head, it will be easier at the first acquaintance to objectively evaluate a potential soul mate.
For example, if the position and wealth are important, searches should be carried out at fashionable corporate parties or among relevant acquaintances. If the form is important, but not the content - a direct road to fitness centers. And in search of a highly organized nature, an intellectual and a polymath, one can go to exhibitions and to the theater. Such primitive logic often works, unless, of course, you hope for a chance.
When the acquaintance has taken place, it is important to assess whether the young man is worthy of further attention, or later on he will have to be blamed on "mistakes of youth." If you want to be caring and kind, just see how he reacts to children in the park. If thriftiness and willingness to help are important, you can drop a phrase about a broken shelf and look at the reaction. And, if the key criterion of the relationship is his attitude towards the chosen one, you just need to look at his attitude towards his own mother.
Often, in order to find a decent guy, you just need to be able to look closely at people, soberly assess their actions and be a little psychologist, which, in general, every girl can do.
What's bad?
There are some advice "from the opposite". If, for example, there is a risk of getting caught in the network of an overly loving young man, it is hardly worth “luring” him with his frank appearance. True love with a lot of positive qualities is rarely found in clubs.
If you don’t want to feel slighted in the future, then you don’t need to play blonde, according to the worst stereotypes: why seem more helpless than you really are?
The most important thing is to remember that he should not choose, he should love the girl for who she is. But what she is ready to become by the time of acquaintance and who will allow herself to be loved is another question.
