Children are noisy creatures. They ask hundreds of questions, scream, cry, run around the apartment and disobey adults. No matter how much you love your child, it is difficult to always remain calm and indifferent in relation to children's whims.
Instructions
Step 1
Often, parental anger can be caused not by the baby's act, but by problems at work, a quarrel with a partner, or crowding on public transport. But yelling at your boss, slamming the door in front of your spouse, or being rude in response to a random fellow traveler is considered indecent, so irritation builds up all day, not finding a way out. But when at home a child accidentally brushes off a bottle of his favorite perfume from the shelf, it spills out on him. The only way out is to try to solve problems in a timely manner with the direct participants in the conflict.
Step 2
Teach your child to be respectful of your vacation. "Don't bother your dad now, he is reading the newspaper." "Don't make a noise, mom is very tired and wants to rest." You will receive a precious watch during which you will be able to restore your peace of mind.
Step 3
Often the parent's irritation is caused by the "ideal mom" complex. After all, the children of a hypothetical ideal mother are always ruddy, contented and smiling. Does your baby cry and you start to get angry with him because his cry means that you are not perfect? Think about the fact that there is hardly a single mother whose child has never cried, did not refuse to eat porridge and did not throw things around.
Step 4
Anger at a baby can also appear if he does not live up to your expectations. Have you dreamed of a quiet child who is fond of reading, and you have a noisy tomboy growing up? Let him be himself and respect him as a person, then the irritation caused by his actions will disappear.
Step 5
Whims, protests and disobedience are signs of an age crisis. Remember that this period will pass, and remember to remind your baby that you love him anyway.
Step 6
If you do get angry, do not hesitate to ask your child for forgiveness. When he realizes that you are ready to admit your guilt if you were wrong, he will begin to trust you even more.
