Babies, alas, cry very often, and this can infuriate even their own parents. A father can be angry with a screaming child if he does not allow him to rest and sleep in peace before a new work day. If such problems start, you need to take action as soon as possible.
How to ease irritation
First, you need to calmly talk to your husband and explain to him that the child is crying because of discomfort, pain in the tummy, an overflowing diaper and for many other reasons, since the infant simply cannot call parents for help otherwise. It may seem strange, but men really do not always understand that children do not cry because of their own whims or a desire to annoy others.
Choose a good time to talk when your husband is in a good mood and can listen to you calmly. If the irritation has already accumulated, and the man is angry, the conversation may not give the desired result.
Try to make the baby cry as little as possible. Change diapers in a timely manner, strictly observe the feeding regime, do a special massage so that the baby does not have tummy pains. Set up the room so that the baby feels safe and does not cry when mom or dad is not around. Be sure to bathe your child at night, using special soothing herbs to prepare the bath. Talk to your doctor about which formulas are right for your child. Thanks to such simple secrets, you can achieve that at night the baby will behave much more calmly, and your spouse will be able to get enough sleep and stop being angry about crying.
It is also worth making sure that you always have toys close at hand to help distract and calm your baby. Teach your husband how to use them; he will become less angry if he understands that the child can be quickly reassured. You should also teach him the simple art of rocking a baby in his arms. This will help strengthen the bond between the child and his father.
What to do if a man is pissed off by a crying baby
Help your spouse find ways to calm down quickly. You can try taking deep breaths and exhales 7-10 times. Another option is to quickly take out the evil on some object, then go up to the child with a smile and try to comfort him.
You should not be angry with your husband for the fact that the crying of a child annoys him. Such a reaction is quite understandable and natural, especially if it is combined with severe fatigue. Do not quarrel over this, do not aggravate the situation.
Provide a soundproofed room in your home. Let there be a place where you can quickly leave in order to calm down and take a break from the crying of children. If over time you yourself encounter such a problem, the room can be used in turn: while one parent calms the child, the second rests in silence.
