If you are a single man or young man, then you may be looking for a mate. Online dating often brings only disappointment, because we imagine a person before the first meeting in a completely different way. It is much more effective to meet a girl in a public place and chat right away. But in order for a stranger to at least start talking to you, you need to hook her with something.
Instructions
Step 1
When you approach the girl, be sure to say hello. This is common courtesy. The next phrase should interest the girl. And the trivial question of time or weather will not work here. Come up with something original, albeit not appropriate for the situation.
Step 2
Look at her appearance, find something that speaks about her life. If you see notebooks in her hands, a tube or her hands are stained with ink, ask a question about the start date of the winter session. If the girl is dressed in sportswear, ask how long it takes for her to run the 100m. Even if there is nothing in her appearance that could allow you to guess about her life, ask questions that concern her personally. If her nails are painted, ask how long it takes for her to update her manicure. When you see the high heel on her shoe, ask how many centimeters it is.
Step 3
Most of the girls will answer the question. Further develop the topic. Ask more questions about herself. Don't forget about compliments. Just give up the stamps. For example, if you tell a girl that she is beautiful, the result will not be very good. But ask her a question about what holiday she is going to, if now she looks so amazing - and you can count on her supportive smile.
Step 4
Do not look appraisingly, do not look at her cleavage and she will find you special. Look her in the eye with a grain of admiration. Don't rush to ask for her phone number or make an appointment. Your goal is to hook the girl so that she herself wants to leave you her coordinates or meet in the evening.
Step 5
Use knowledge of body language. The toes of your shoe should point towards her. Use only open poses, do not cross your arms or legs. Adapt to her breathing rhythm. Repeat her gestures. All these simple tricks act on a subconscious level, the girl will sympathize with you unconsciously.
Step 6
Find out her infatuation. To do this, you can jump from topic to topic. When you have decided what is interesting for her, speak up and ask questions in this area. If the girl has free time, you can immediately invite her to a cafe (or a restaurant, depending on your financial capabilities) and there continue communication in the same style. Take the girl's contacts only after a long (if possible) communication. Ask a question about her phone number only after you are sure that you have been able to hook the girl.
