Child disobedience worsens the relationship with the child and spoils the nerves of all family members. How can one exist peacefully, avoiding unnecessary conflict situations? How to teach a child to obey their parents? Try to become an example for him by gaining parental authority.
Instructions
Step 1
The dream of many parents is to be a real example for a growing baby, to enjoy his respect and location, regardless of age. Being an authority for your child, it is much easier for mom or dad to explain to the baby what is good and what is bad. Remember that such an authority needs constant development. You can only strengthen it by continuously developing as a person. And this applies even to the smartest and most educated parents.
Step 2
At the earliest age (up to 1 year), the mother is everything for the baby: she provides him with existence. Therefore, her parental authority at this time is formed automatically. At the age of one to three years, joint games are very important for a child. In them, mom and dad are the main carriers of knowledge about the world and objects. From three to six, in addition to games, it is very important to discuss books and cartoons read together with the child. Do everything together, without excluding the child from your adult life. In the game, study, communication and life without rules will not work. Just keep in mind that your requirements for the baby must be intelligible and justified. And all family members must comply with them. Do not forget about the sequence: having resolved something once, you will not be able to explain to the child why it cannot be done another. Try not to overuse prohibitions. Let them concern only life-threatening things. It is very difficult for a kid who is forbidden to be obedient.
Step 3
A schoolchild from 7 to 12 years old needs and important the help of parents in their studies. Support him, help in establishing contacts with peers. Take part in his life, arrange hikes, excursions, trips, talk about your professional activities. This will strengthen your parental authority and ensure the child's gratitude in the future. Your friendship with your son or daughter, which is based on natural authority, helps children to adopt the values and norms of their parents. By his actions, the child seeks to evoke parental approval and respect, and there are simply no reasons for child disobedience in such a family.
