Perhaps you have seen such a picture when on the street you notice a young mother with a baby in a stroller, from which you can hear a desperate scream breaking into a squeal. Probably, the baby is trying his best to show his mother that he really wants to be at the moment in her warm and tender arms, and not in the ultra-modern and comfortable cradle of the stroller.
As a rule, such situations either end with a hysteria of the mother and child, when the mood is completely ruined, and the walk turns into torture. Or the baby can safely fall asleep after a few minutes of non-stop crying. All this stems from the fact that mothers are trying to educate their newborn children in this way, "not accustoming them to their hands."
Such methods cannot but have a negative impact on the child's psyche. Just imagine, your little one, very small, defenseless and helpless, sees in you his support, support and salvation. It is quite natural that in the first days of his life, a child wants to feel your warmth and presence as often as possible. That is why he so often cries and asks for his arms, showing you his concern.
However, some parents stubbornly stand their ground and try to pick up the child as rarely as possible. Meanwhile, you are depriving yourself of the happiest and most serene moments of joy. After all, it is a great happiness when you feel a small miracle on your strong hands. It belongs only to you and loves only you. When your baby is in your arms, his entire nervous system and emotional state are in a state of rest and relaxation.
Tactile contact with their parents is very important for newborn babies. After all, the crumbs still see poorly, so touching is the only way to cognize the world around them at the initial stage. If a child asks for his arms while crying or some kind of resentment, do not deny him this. The baby needs support, and if at this moment you push him away, this may affect his state of mind in the future.
Don't be afraid to spoil your child by picking up your baby frequently. Believe me, if your upbringing system is built correctly, then an extra touch of your child will not do any harm. On the contrary, this way you can once again show your child how dear he is to you. You know, there is one very wise saying: "Do not be afraid to pamper your children, because it is not yet known what trials life has in store for them." Of course, this is not a call to blindly and unconditionally start pampering your fidgets. However, reasonable indulgences are still permissible.
Do not miss the opportunity to communicate with your baby better and do not be afraid to take him in your arms. Know that soon your child will grow up and no matter how you dreamed of holding him on the arms, in response you can only hear: "Mom, I'm not little anymore!"
