How he grows up depends on the correct upbringing and attitude towards the child. Just think: it is in your power to take steps today to make your son or daughter more confident, flexible, kinder.
Instructions
Step 1
Remember that raising a child is a daily job. This is not just a big word. Builds relationships with a son or daughter - really work without days off and vacations. In it, you need to improve your skills, revise approaches, draw conclusions. It is a pity that parenting is not taught. But you have the opportunity to independently study different approaches and child psychology and apply knowledge in practice.
Step 2
Do not expect your child to return for your efforts. He doesn't owe you anything. In due time, he will also give a part of himself for the upbringing of his children, will support them, take care of them. This is part of a natural process. Therefore, you should not think that you are doing something special by sacrificing yourself.
Step 3
Realize the full extent of responsibility for your words and actions towards the child. Every outburst of unjust or righteous anger, every breakdown on the baby, every evil word or ridicule - everything will be reflected in the future on his character, behavior, ability to achieve success.
Step 4
Take your child's problems and troubles seriously. It doesn't matter how old he is. What upsets him is just as important as your troubles. Don't discount your baby's worries, fears, and doubts. Understand that he does not have such a life experience as you do. Therefore, everything is given by him much more difficult. A baby's life takes place on a different level.
Step 5
More important than some material benefits for the child is the sincere attention and interest of the parents. The kid needs to be given time, to give him communication. Some parents do not want to do this, but subconsciously understand their mistake. And they begin to compensate for the lack of heat with gifts and toys.
