When a child appears in a woman's life, the whole way of life immediately changes. The child requires attention, cries if he feels bad. But cooking, washing and cleaning do not disappear anywhere. How to do everything and find time to communicate with the child?
Necessary
- - oven;
- - multicooker or double boiler;
- - vacuum cleaner;
- - washing machine;
- - sling or ergonomic backpack;
Instructions
Step 1
To begin with, relax and realize that the first time the apartment may not be in perfect order. After giving birth, you will learn to interact with the baby, to understand him. When the child grows up, you will have more time for yourself and household chores.
Step 2
Good home appliances make housework very easy. If the washing machine and dishwasher no longer surprise anyone, then robotic vacuum cleaners and multicooker with steamers have not yet firmly entered the life of housewives. If funds allow you, then think about what acquisitions are needed.
Step 3
Get your husband to clean up. Of course, not every husband will agree to this, but even a little help with the housework will make your life much easier.
Step 4
If you need to do some housework, take your child with you at all times. At first, a sling or an ergonomic backpack will help you with this, and then the child can be involved in household chores. Children are very interested in what adults are doing, they want to take part in everything. Figure out how to involve your child in the cleaning process. For example, while washing dishes, you can give your child his own mug and plate, let him pour water from one container to another. Of course, the process of washing dishes will take a little longer, but the job will be done, and the child is not deprived of attention.
Step 5
We should also pay special attention to the issue of cooking. Choose dishes that do not require constant standing at the stove. Divide your cooking into several steps. It took two minutes - you can peel the potatoes, another five - you can cut it. Master the oven, it is much easier to cook in it than on an open fire, since constant stirring is not required. If you have an oven without a timer, then set the alarm, otherwise there is a chance to miss the moment when the dish is ready.
Step 6
Perhaps one of your relatives will want to come to help you with the housework. In this case, discuss in advance that you need help in everyday matters, and not in terms of caring for a child. Relatives often confuse these concepts.
Step 7
If financial circumstances force you to go to work, then be ready to give your child all your attention when you come home. Young children take the stress of parting with their mother hard and compensate for it with evening communication. Try to give your child as much body contact as possible.
