Psychologists say that neurosis occurs in those children who experience conflicts between living conditions and their own temperament, because all attempts to resist the child's character usually lead to inferiority complexes, low self-esteem, aggression and neuroses. That is, if you rush a slow child or slow down an inquisitive one, you can completely ruin your child.
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Neuroses make themselves felt if parents make incredible demands on the child that are inappropriate for the child's age or physical characteristics. For example, when parents are trying to make a child prodigy or a great musician out of a child, but he does not have aspirations for this.
Step 2
Independent children, whose parents are hyper-caregivers, are susceptible to neuroses. For example, if children are given all kinds of prescriptions and rules of behavior, but at the same time they restrain all his initiatives and manifestations of personality. Abuse of all kinds of prohibitions also negatively affects the development of the child.
Step 3
Overly spoiled children develop neuroses. Kids, who are allowed to do everything, suffer from too high self-esteem, so any difficulty on their way is a psychological trauma for them.
Step 4
Neuroses can appear in a child at the birth of a brother or sister. When a new child appears, mom has to spend more time with him, but neither she nor dad should forget about the feelings and upbringing of older children. They are accustomed to attention, and with the appearance of a child, they, in their opinion, are relegated to the background. Jealousy, screams, resentments, scenes of scandals appear. Children arrange whims, showing that they, too, are still small.
Step 5
Neuroses are caused by harsh punishments. For example, when parents humiliate a child, his personality. If parents rip off their nerves on a child and subjugate him, he grows up cowardly, tough and callous. Of course, you cannot completely ignore the misconduct, but you should understand and show restraint when solving any problems.
Step 6
Also, one of the main causes of neuroses is quarrels and scandals between parents. Quarrels and scandals traumatize the child's psyche, and over time he begins to imitate his parents, that is, he becomes just as cruel and callous.
