It is necessary to teach a child to order from an early age. Many psychologists are confident that the sooner the baby begins to understand his responsibilities, the easier it will be for him in adolescence. The ability to clean up toys after themselves, fold clothes correctly and wash a plate after eating will instill in the child neatness and awareness of himself as a person.
It is necessary to teach a son or daughter to help parents around the house from 2-3 years old. It is best to turn cleaning into a fun game, thereby motivating the child's own desire. Teach your toddler to arrange toys in his room, as only he likes. Show me how to make the bed after a night's sleep, where to put the pillow, and how to lay the duvet properly. Do not forget to praise the child and say that he is already quite like an adult, believe me, these words will be pleasant.
Follow the principle of gradualness, do not force the child to clean up if he does not want to, never go to shouting, threats and ultimatums. Try to show and explain to the kid that it is his direct responsibility to keep his things and toys in order, and he makes you very upset with his disobedience. Never bribe a child with the words: "You will now put things in order, and I will give you a delicious candy." In the future, this will not bring anything good, in addition, the child will understand that material praise follows the favor.
Set an example and start the house cleaning yourself, it is likely that your baby will be happy to help you with this. Wipe off the dust from the shelves, showing how to do it, suggest wiping the rest of the shelves yourself. To make the process feel relaxed and fun, turn on music that will cheer you up and your baby. After cleaning is complete, praise your child and tell them that you are very proud of them.