Some married couples who have been married for a long time like to relax separately from each other. Experts believe that this is not happening because there is a discord between them. During the time of separation, they begin to miss each other more. In addition to a separate rest in pairs, sleep under different blankets is also often observed. This phenomenon also has its own explanation.
The main reasons for sleeping under different blankets
Some spouses admitted that the main reason for sleeping under different blankets is that the dearest half snores heavily during sleep. Others are that when they disperse to different rooms, they have time to miss a loved one. And only slightly more than half of families share the bed for a while. Then they go to their room and rest alone. Each person has their own characteristics and habits, as well as weaknesses. And they cannot refuse them even because of their beloved spouse.
In this regard, spending the night in different beds, they do not feel remorse, because there is nothing wrong with that.
During the daytime, there are often disputes and conflicts between spouses. Due to the fact that disagreements arise due to the child's performance in school or on any other little things. Resting under different blankets, spouses get the opportunity to think well and evaluate everything, make peace in the morning and no longer quarrel over one reason or another.
It is much more difficult for a person to sleep if next to him all night long someone tosses and turns in a dream. But at night you can hear not only the sound of a rustling sheet, but also gnashing of teeth, snoring and many others. Perhaps one of the spouses likes to wake up at night and feast on the leftovers from dinner in the kitchen. Sleeping under the same blanket with someone who wanders around the apartment all night is simply impossible.
Owl and lark
If one of the spouses goes to bed early, and the other stays for a long time, doing various things or working at a laptop or computer, they will definitely not be able to fall asleep at the same time, because their schedules simply do not coincide.
In the case when you need to get up early for work, it is best to rest separately from each other, that is, under different blankets.
Scientists argue that sleeping in different bedrooms keeps a passionate relationship for a long time and does not extinguish passion. Just imagine how early in the morning you get up rested and slept and fall into the arms of your loved one. How much love and positive emotions you will feel at this time. It is impossible to convey in words. At night, you feel free and remember the days when you were not married and in your parents' apartment, in a separate bed.
If you are worried that your spouse prefers to sleep under a different blanket, listen to the advice of experienced psychologists and do not make scandals. Thus, you will keep the love of mutual understanding for a long time.
