Getting to know a good man is not enough to create a long and lasting relationship. So that his interest in you does not fade away after a few years, you need to remain for him the most attractive, desired and, at the same time, not fully understood.
Referring to the fact that men love with their eyes, many women focus on their own appearance. They regularly visit fitness rooms, go on diets, follow fashion trends and train their gait from the hip. Yes, all this significantly increases the chances of meeting and falling in love with a man, but you should not make toy lovers out of the opposite sex. In addition to outside beauty, inner beauty is also important. Staying interesting for a man for many years is a whole science.
Become interesting for yourself
"If you want to change the world, change yourself." According to this principle, you shouldn't change for the sake of a man. Do it for yourself. Update your wardrobe, hairstyle, make-up technique periodically. Don't be afraid to try new things. For example, if you most often wear jeans and neutral makeup, buy yourself a dress and red lipstick. Go on a date or go out to a cafe with your friends.
Assess your self-esteem soberly. A self-confident woman is immediately visible, she is self-sufficient. Think about what you are missing in order to feel fulfilled. Maybe you don't have any hobby? Sign up for courses in cooking, photography, makeup, and more. Maybe you are unhappy with your position? Change jobs. Do not call a man every half hour asking when he will arrive. Take care of yourself at this time.
Develop your skills, horizons, increase the level of intelligence. You will feel pride that you were able to achieve something or learn something new, and the people around you will become more interested in communicating with you.
Become interesting for a man
Men love to be listened to and heard. Take an interest in his affairs and hobbies, sincerely try to understand the essence of the matter. This does not mean that you absolutely need to know all the players of his favorite team. But sometimes you can keep him company while watching the match, keeping up the conversation.
Come up with an activity that will be interesting for both. For example, riding bicycles or movies on weekends. This is a good opportunity to get closer and find new topics of conversation.
Sex plays an important role in a man's life. Therefore, one cannot relax here. Look in a magazine for a new pose and ask your partner to try it out. Buy a beautiful set in a style different from yours. Seduce and surprise a man, then you will open up in his eyes from a new side.
One famous phrase says: "The ideal woman is a mistress in bed, a hostess in the kitchen and a lady at a party." Be different for a man, and he will definitely appreciate it.