Often, the child responds with aggression to the excessive demands of his parents. This occurs in families with tyrant parents and hyper-caregiver parents. Also, a child can respond with aggression to the failure to fulfill any of his wishes or to experiences associated with resentment or infringement of pride. How should you behave with an aggressive child and how can you save him from excessive aggression?
You must know and remember that raising your voice or banning is not an effective way to overcome aggression. Only the identification of such causes and their removal can guarantee that the aggressiveness will be overcome.
Give your child the opportunity to vent all their aggression by directing it to a pillow, newspaper, or toy. It is also advisable to show the child an example of behavior and, of course, prove to him your love and the best feelings for him. Feel free to fondle him or pity him.
Playing with adults or peers can help you overcome aggression. For example, you can play an interesting game "Kicking", when the child lies on his back and starts kicking, touching the floor with his left or right foot. Gradually you need to increase your speed and strength. With all this, the child must say the word "no" every time the foot touches the floor.
You can also play Caricature. Discuss a person you both know with your child, ask the child what he likes or dislikes about this person, and then offer to draw his portrait.
