It is only at first glance that it seems that a baby at 1, 5 years old does not need to be brought up - they say too small - but you just have to take care of him. But this is absolutely not the case. As it grows and develops, it is very important to master and apply a variety of techniques and methods. And at any age, the main means in raising a child is love.
Instructions
Step 1
Objectively evaluate the achievements of your baby. Children under 2 years old differ in their capabilities. Therefore, do not approach your child with general standards and do not compare with "neighbors". Education and development should be gradual, progressive (from simple to complex).
Step 2
Try not to react to outbursts of the child's moody behavior: crying, anger, throwing toys and things. If this does not threaten the health of the baby, then it is better not to notice it. It is difficult, of course, but this way you can show him that he will not achieve anything by screaming, crying and whims. If the child begins to act up, behave badly, distract him, turn his attention to something else.
Step 3
Praise your baby for good deeds, good behavior. Collected toys - well done, you can please the child with something.
Step 4
Create the conditions for good behavior of the toddler. For example, buy beautiful baskets for toys - they will delight the baby, create coziness and he will be happy to put his things in them.
Step 5
Facial expression, body language, gestures, show your attitude towards the child's behavior. After all, it is very difficult for such toddlers, and sometimes it is impossible to explain that he is doing something wrong, wrong.
Step 6
Apply a logical chain, sequence. For example, breaks toys - take them away for a while. Repeat these steps several times. So the baby will learn to understand that what the parents do not like leads to the deprivation of something, i.e. punishment. Constantly drawing on the wall or wallpaper, get him to help clean the wall and put the pencil away for a period.
Step 7
Show patiently, give an example of correct behavior. Do with your baby, teach by example.
Step 8
After asking, pause for 1-2 minutes, then repeat what you want from the child. But pauses should not be more than 5 minutes. And always keep your own promises.
Step 9
And a very important advice: your requirements for the child should be the same. You cannot allow what mom has forbidden, and dad allowed, or vice versa.
