Unfortunately, love can pass. Some relationships are not meant to last a lifetime. It is even sadder to live with a person who has already fallen out of love, but does not dare to break up. There are several ways to determine that a woman has changed her attitude towards her partner.
Avoids a partner
A woman in love seeks to spend more time with her chosen one. Watching a movie together or cooking dinner for two, a walk or a conversation - all this brings joy to loving people. If the girl has cooled down towards her partner, she will probably start avoiding him. When feelings disappear due to a long stay together, everyday moments and family problems, friendship can replace love. Then habit and respect remain, the couple still spends a lot of time together and is not burdened by it. But if love has passed due to disappointment in a person or after betrayal, you will hardly want to be close to your former chosen one.
Stops consulting
Notice if the girl asks you for advice. A woman in love tries to match her partner, trusts him and tries to make decisions that he approves. If a girl has fallen out of love, she loses interest in the opinion of the chosen one and stops consulting with him. Her man ceases to be an authority, so she no longer needs his support. Of course, every little thing and questions that lie exclusively within the women's competence, your chosen one should not agree with you. But if she doesn’t listen to you on important things, it’s alarming.
Doesn't want intimacy
A decline in a woman's libido can occur for various reasons, but one of them is a lack of love. If she dodges sex in every possible way and tries to shorten it, if she never initiates sex, perhaps her feelings have passed. For some women, sexual desire and feelings are so closely interconnected that the former is impossible without the latter. A reduction in the intimate sphere of life can also occur due to a disorder in women's health or personality problems, sudden complexes or general anxiety. Therefore, do not rush to draw conclusions, consider the general picture and exclude other reasons.
Doesn't make joint plans
Some women are so arranged that even at the very beginning of their acquaintance, they half-seriously plan a joint future with the man they like. The stronger the girl's feelings become, the stronger in the subconscious she connects her own existence with the life of her beloved. If you notice that in a woman's plans, “we” has suddenly become “me,” be on the lookout. This is a serious call, which suggests that her love is already in the past. For example, if before your chosen one was often interested in where you would like to live or travel, what views on marriage and children you hold, and then ceased to be interested in your vision of the future, think about whether everything is good in your relationship.
Does spite
If love has given way to resentment and annoyance with a partner, a woman can begin to act in spite of him. To specially cook those dishes that he does not like, buy only what she needs, be rude, compare her boyfriend with others not in his favor and demonstrate disdain in every possible way. However, this behavior does not always indicate that love has finally passed. It can occur if the girl's feelings are hurt. Sometimes a woman in this way wants to hint that she is unhappy with some aspect in your relationship. Of course, it is better to bring her to a frank conversation, since the problem must be solved.
Stops caring for a partner
A loving woman instinctively cares about her chosen one. She enjoys doing good for her partner, caring for him, cooking and helping him. When love passes, the urge to care fades away. If your loved one has stopped showing you the usual signs of attention, do not rush to consider your love lost. Perhaps she simply does not see the return and therefore does not try to make your life more pleasant and comfortable.
Changes in behavior
When a woman stops loving her partner, her behavior can change dramatically. From talkative she turns into silent, from active to passive, from enthusiast to quiet. By nature, calm representatives of the fair sex become even more self-contained. Here you should pay attention to the mood in general. Depression for a long time indicates dissatisfaction with some sphere of life. Maybe just your relationship.
Thinks only of himself
Sometimes a woman who no longer loves a man, as if mentally deletes him from her life and begins to think only of herself. For example, before she tried to make her leisure time joint, but now she has started a hobby that her partner cannot share with her. Of course, it is not forbidden to do this, and on the contrary, you should not completely dissolve in a partner. But at least some points of contact in a pair should be.
Looking for a replacement
A woman who has already fallen out of love, but has not yet decided to break up, can start looking for a replacement for her boyfriend. Some girls do this not very decently because of the fear of loneliness. It happens that not finding a worthy candidate, a woman remains in the old relationship, but already without the former joy and without love.
