Some men, living for a long time in marriage with their spouse, begin to grow cold towards her. If such a situation has arisen in your family, you can try to maintain the relationship and return the former passion.
Why men grow cold towards their wives
If you notice that your spouse has begun to treat you indifferently, do not rush to accuse him of this, but first pay attention to the changes that have happened to you after you have been legally married for some time.
Men often grow cold towards women for the following reasons. Some girls, having lived with a partner for a long time, stop taking care of themselves. They walk around the house in outstretched trousers, with dirty, unkempt hair, and only put themselves in order when they need to go outside. This behavior is categorically unacceptable. You do makeup and put on beautiful clothes before going out into society so that the people around you look at you and see you as an attractive woman, but now this should not be a matter of principle, since there is already a person in your life who loves you. All your transformations and efforts should be directed only towards him.
The second reason for male indifference is a change in the character of the girl. Feeling the power over the representative of the stronger sex, ladies begin to completely control all movements of their husband, monitor his calls and messages, limit his freedom and personal space, forbidding to see friends and old friends. Constant reproaches and picking at his shortcomings can kill interest in your spouse. He will stop looking at you as a woman, and will treat you like a grumpy housewife who is always unhappy with something.
How to bring passion back into a relationship
If you understand what is the reason for male indifference, you have begun to work to eliminate it, do not stop there. Try to return to your relationship not only love, but also the old passion.
To begin with, warm up jealousy in your spouse, letting him know that other representatives of the stronger sex may also pay attention to you.
An intimate surprise should follow. You can give your husband a show with elements of a striptease, taking care in advance that you are wearing beautiful and seductive underwear. Alternatively, you can try to diversify your sex life by adding something new to it. Get involved in role-playing games, learn new positions, or learn erotic massage techniques. Most likely, your spouse will appreciate any attempt you make to restore harmony in the family and in intimacy.
