The creation of a family involves common living, common children, common problems and a common wallet. Unfortunately, men often forget about the latter and give money to their soulmate only if the woman asks.
It is necessary
- - list of expenses and their planning;
- - the idea of a general purchase of some expensive item.
Instructions
Step 1
It is better to teach a husband to give his salary or at least part of it right away, while he is not yet used to and has not taken a separate budget for granted. A man must understand that creating a family imposes certain obligations on him, including financial ones. Do not delay the matter indefinitely, fearing to injure the tender soul of your beloved with your mercantile interests. Then it is much more difficult to instill in him the realization that the money needs to be given to his wife. Indeed, why give your wife your hard-earned money, if before we did just fine without these sacrifices, he will logically decide.
Step 2
Having married or starting to live together, immediately raise a delicate problem, on whose means are you, in fact, going to live? If you are a fan of equal relations, discuss who and how much money will contribute to the common pot. Your husband is not eager to give you all his salary, agree to pay current expenses (utilities, food, household appliances) in a bundle, in proportion to the income of each of you.
Step 3
By the way, these current expenses can be increased by stating that the amount that your betrothed gives out is not enough to cover them. Need more. If your husband starts to argue and doubt the veracity of your words, ask him to go to the market and buy everything himself. Men, as a rule, do not know how to choose a product and bargain, and wandering around the trading floor in search of something that is cheaper annoys them and makes them sad (either because of the realization of their own failure, or because of the peculiarities of male temperament). Or experiment: collect all the receipts and demonstrate how much you spend on groceries. You can always find a more expensive product than what you usually buy.
Step 4
Another very good option is to agree on a common purchase, for which, of course, you will need to save money. You can offer a car. For most men, this is a favorite toy, and, most likely, they easily fall for such a trick. You just have to allocate a place where you will put your common money. Over time, the husband will get used to this state of affairs, and you will not have to beg him for another handout.
