Today, almost every married couple who lives in marriage has various problems that very often become the reason for divorce. And this applies not only to young families who signed “out of stupidity,” “because of pregnancy,” or for some other reason, but also to families who have lived long years of married life.
Maintaining friendly relations
How to avoid divorce can be talked about constantly and uselessly. Here it is necessary to clearly and clearly define the reasons, circumstances and adequately assess the situation. If people went to sign divorce papers, then there are reasons for this. But if this is inevitable, but you need to try to maintain a normal relationship. Most often, women decide to get divorced, they go through this process a little easier than men. For men, divorce is a loss of property, that is, his women.
Lost interest in each other
If the decision to divorce is based precisely on this problem, then you should not change it. There is no need to torture yourself and start living separately, people should be able to face the truth and make categorical decisions. Loss of feelings should not be confused with a difficult period in a relationship that people in love are going through in a place. If you have no feelings left in relation to your soulmate, then at least respect for the person with whom you lived for some time in the same house and fell asleep in the same bed should be present. Therefore, in the next six months, you should not start a new relationship, or at least not advertise it. From the outside, you might think that treason was the reason for the divorce.
Children
When divorcing, the main thing is to preserve the child's psyche and a normal attitude towards each of the parents. That is, the child must be protected from quarrels and scandals that influenced the decision to divorce. Try to explain to the child what the reason is, it is better if both parents are present during the conversation. If one person is talking to a child about this, you should not say bad things about the other parent, because the child's attitude towards him may not change, but it will change towards you for the worse. You need to be able to maintain your authority and dignity.
