Cheating in some cases has a positive effect on a person's condition and on the relationship between partners. For example, after a betrayal, a partner may experience stronger feelings (passion, attraction), increase self-esteem, he learns to appreciate a loved one.
But do not forget that in addition to the positive aspects, betrayal hurts the partner and causes a feeling of betrayal. The culprit experiences constant remorse, requires self-control and a decision on how to prevent such a situation in the future. Systematic repetition can lead to the destruction of relationships and the collapse of the social unit (for spouses). Psychologists do not exclude one-time and short-term infidelities, which have a positive effect on the development of relationships. However, protracted relationships on the side without action are devastating for couples.
If there is any suspicion about a partner or before the planned departure, it is necessary in the conversation to mention any story (maybe even fictional) about the betrayal of a friend's husband, which led to a divorce or other adverse consequences. This will be the first signal for a man, and perhaps he will reflect on the current situation and protect himself from unwanted connections in time. Also, a very correct solution to the question of how to prevent cheating is a change in appearance, a radical change in the image, which will give a certain charm and cause positive emotions in a partner. In this case, he will have a desire to enjoy your beauty and elegance, and the need to find another woman for sexual relations will disappear.
By the way, a great way is preliminary torture with sexual games, so that the man does not have the strength and desire to start flirting with other women. Potential checks should not sound like a threat, but sudden surprises should be warned (for example, the arrival of a mother on an important matter or a call to a landline phone at any time of the day). Often it is phone calls that impede building relationships on the side, so do not hesitate to call and talk about your love for a man.
If your fears are justified, then you should not drag out the situation, you need to solve it on the spot. An unexpected arrival from a summer residence or a trip will take a man by surprise. Also, an indicator of the reliability of your information about the change can be an immediate sexual intercourse, the activity of which can determine the level of a man's desire. Even if a man has shown himself insufficiently active in comparison with other cases, you should not throw a tantrum, especially if there is no one hundred percent proof of his betrayal. Such hysterical behavior can alienate partners and cause divorce.
It is more logical to interest your chosen one and constantly show that you are the best, that he made the right choice. Make your beloved man feel that he is desired, show concern and respect his opinion. Most likely, he will respond with the same attitude.
