When people are madly in love with each other, it would seem that nothing can disturb their love idyll. But life sometimes brings unpleasant surprises. One of these surprises is seeing the guy off to the army. No matter how difficult it is, you need to be able to overcome yourself and carry it out without hysterics and tears.
Instructions
Step 1
Accept this circumstance. In this situation, nothing can be changed, so try to think only of the good. Think that time will pass, and everything will return to normal, that this is not the worst thing that can happen in life. Any situation must be taken with dignity.
Step 2
Perhaps this separation will benefit both of you, you will take a break from each other and rethink a lot. Do not get hung up on the fact that your young man goes to the army, and now life will lose its meaning. Life doesn't end there. This is only a certain stage that needs to be passed.
Step 3
Do not cry on the wires and do not hang yourself on your loved one. Think about the fact that it is doubly harder for him, since he leaves for the unknown, parting not only with you, but also with family and friends. You stay at home, and it will be much easier for you to come to terms with his departure.
Step 4
After he leaves, do not sit at home, do not get depressed. Develop, go somewhere to relax. Talk to your parents or friends. They will help you distract yourself. Just don't be alone with your thoughts. Immerse yourself headlong in work (study) so that there is no time for sad thoughts.
Step 5
You should not, of course, indulge in "all bad" in order to drown out the pain of parting. It will not benefit anyone, neither him nor you. Time will pass and he will return.
