In the life of almost every guy there comes a moment when he must go to serve in the army. This is inevitable and is one of the responsibilities of men. Their girls also have a hard time, because the beloved is too far away.
Many believe that only guys can suffer from being in the army, because there they go through a real school of survival, and the girls lead their usual way of life. But this is absolutely not the case! A woman is much more vulnerable and needs constant emotional closeness with her man. When this does not happen, the fair sex falls into depression and sometimes cannot cope with emotional distress. This is why it is so important to use your boyfriend's time in the military for the benefit of both your relationship and your loved one.
Stop sprinkling your tears on your pillow and start taking action! Improve yourself - sign up for a foreign language course, start going to the gym, learn how to cook new and delicious dishes, go on a diet, read more, be interested in something new, travel, go to museums, exhibitions. The guy will be glad to see next to him a transformed, beautiful and interesting girl who strives to become better.
Don't put yourself under house arrest. It is impossible to stay at home for a whole year. Meet friends, go to clubs, attend fashion events. The main thing is to watch your behavior and in no case flirt. Of course, light flirting is not forbidden, but in everything you need to know when to stop and not go beyond the bounds of decency. No matter how hard it is without male attention and care, do not allow yourself anything superfluous.
Write letters and keep a journal. The guy will be glad to hear from his beloved, so try to write to him as often as possible. Tell about everything that happens, send photos. This correspondence will help you get over the separation. A diary is the best medicine for melancholy. After all, it is better to entrust all the accumulated emotions to paper, and not to friends who will not be able to ease your worries. By the way, try to be more tactful towards others - friends also have problems that they want to talk about.
